random thoughts.

is hurting, bashing on someone with criticism, and blaming them for their mistakes in order to make them grow better than telling them white lies in order to comfort them? what would you do for your good friend? this is something i’ve recently come to think about.. honestly i’ve always preferred someone to be understanding and tell me white lies in order to comfort me.. i would rather try to avoid as much criticism and reality and possible.. but your bluntness and honesty has come to make me realize some things.. maybe sometimes people do really need to be faced with the truth and as much criticism as possible in order for them to strive for success no matter how much it hurts.. regardless i rather be loving and take the side of the people i care dearly <3 

21 days left till summer! :D 

38 days left till summer 2011